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Mar 20Liked by SleepyHollow, inK.

This is one of my favorites, though really, I consistently like them all. I often want to come back after I comment, and comment some more, like after last time's body/animal truth and the exploding eggs. As for dark matter, I'm definitely a believer in a way that might seem woo-woo to someone if I tried to express it in a few sentences, so better not to express it at all. (P.S. I'm also a "not enough" and "too much" person; par for the course for writers? Or not?)

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Oh please do get woo woo on dark matter :) I think there are so many side topics from these topics where I need to have you as my special guest…hmmm

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Mar 20Liked by SleepyHollow, inK.

Oh thank you! But I honestly don't have words to express my slippery feelings about that stuff, just a "sense of it." In other words, if I had a few hours and a few drinks in me I might spill, but sober and in print, too skittish.

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Mar 20Liked by SleepyHollow, inK.

Okay (see? I always want to come back), this isn't it, but it probably crosses in a Venn diagram with my increasing sense that everything has or is a form of consciousness.

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I think you're onto something!

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Mar 18Liked by SleepyHollow, inK.

This was remarkable. Thanks for writing and sharing it.

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That means so much to hear that, thank you!!

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Mar 16Liked by SleepyHollow, inK.

Being present is so key to happiness I find and I also fail at it so regularly, getting sucked it to the tyranny of the urgent. Good luck with “Live with intention. Be present. Look around while I wait in the Walgreens line. Maybe even make a friend or reach out to an old one. “

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Practical enforcement helps - I installed the app that reduces my car insurance if I touch my phone zero times on any trip (not at stoplights, not in dead traffic, never) so that’s a good start.

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Mar 16Liked by SleepyHollow, inK.

We enforce no cell phone dinners with a pretty good hit rate at making it happen. Makes a huge difference. Mostly though it is me … too easy to get sucked into work in my “always on” job.

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Meal time is sacred, glad you protect it

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Mar 16Liked by SleepyHollow, inK.

Horror Vacui as with my music process a great title for an unwritten album

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Oh yes! Do it!

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Mar 16Liked by SleepyHollow, inK.

It's really tough to do fewer things, isn't it? I'm trying to do that now.

I want to fill every second with something, but sometimes you need a little bit of nothing for a while. I'm learning, but it's a slow, painful process that involves working on my "patience muscle", and not allowing boredom to take hold and dominate. Boredom is a double-edged sword: incredibly useful, but also incredibly dangerous.

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Even my list of doing nothing contained all these somethings. I still think Aristotle is onto something and “nothing” doesn’t exist, but it is good to strive for less not more.

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